does something like this exist as a skopable piece
(http://i57.tinypic.com/21ludkl.jpg)
The first thing I thought of was Ink's classic Scarlet Witch. If you used alphas I'm sure you could recreate that headgear.
There's probably something better out there though.
Maybe you can use the helm in Gren's Lilandra with an alpha channel and some repositioning.
Here you go friend UE, made one for you. Skope it onto the Head node of whatever female mesh.
http://catman.freedomforceforever.com/temp/glimmertiara.rar (http://catman.freedomforceforever.com/temp/glimmertiara.rar)
alice you are bloody brilliant owe you one
Way to go SA!