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Title: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Cyber Burn on May 01, 2008, 06:25:18 PM
 As some of you may know, FLASH_22798 is my cousin. We group up together, he has always been one of my best friends, and he is the one who introduced me to Freedom Force. I have really enjoyed my time here but need to take some time off. Like me, my cousin has suffered from Bi-Polar disorder for the majority of his life. Unfortunately, he always had a hard time staying on his medications. This has always been problematic for not only him, but our family as a whole.

This is kind of hard for me, but I know that during his "up" periods, he spoke highly of the people here, and I felt I should say  something. This afternoon, I recieved a phonecall from his wife saying that he had taken his life last night. He left behind a wife and daughter who are devastated. As for myself, It's hard staying on the meds sometimes, but I don't want to leave my wife and daughter behind, especially now.

I don't know if I should have posted this or not, but I felt that the people that he was friends with deserved to know why he kept leaving and why he won't be back. Please keep his wife and daughter in your thoughts for me. Thank you.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: ow_tiobe_sb on May 01, 2008, 06:35:18 PM
This is terrible news, Cyber Burn.  Please accept my condolences for your loss and pass the community's sympathy on to your cousin's family.

ow_tiobe_sb
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: tommyboy on May 01, 2008, 06:35:54 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you and his family.
He was a nice, talented guy who will be missed.
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Post by: UnfluffyBunny on May 01, 2008, 06:52:08 PM
my sincere condolances to you and your family for your loss,
while I never actually spoke to him, I remember him as a friendly poster, and always giving his own time to help others with what he could.
this is a loss in more ways than I can express, I believe no-one would argue that he was a prime member of the community and his presence will be missed.
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Post by: Gremlin on May 01, 2008, 07:26:29 PM
Wow...I'm so sorry to hear this. Flash was a really cool frood.  My condolences.
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Post by: stumpy on May 01, 2008, 07:28:36 PM
Cyber Burn, I am really sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your family. I am glad he was able to spend some time with us here and he'll be missed. I'm glad you let us know.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: doctorchallenger on May 01, 2008, 07:54:11 PM
Cyber -

I am incredibly sorry about your loss. When I first started making request on this board, Flash was one of the folks who responded early on.  I remember leafing through his many yahoo groups, thinking that he really was trying to make sure the community had access to one skin of almost every Marvel and DC character, dedicated to the cause.

All my best to you and you family.



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Post by: vamp on May 01, 2008, 08:03:01 PM
Please except my sincerest condolences. I am extremely sorry to here of this loss. He was a very good man. I wish I could say something to make things better. I never post in these kind of threads, but I think he deserves at least that from me. I am just really sorry to hear about this.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Zapow on May 01, 2008, 08:25:58 PM
I am truly sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Pyroclasm on May 01, 2008, 08:30:51 PM
You and your family are in my thoughts.  Thank you for letting us know.
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Post by: Epimethee on May 01, 2008, 08:38:56 PM
Please accept my condoleances and convey my deepest sympathies to your family, Cyber Burn.
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Post by: The Hitman on May 01, 2008, 09:26:19 PM
My deepest condolences to your family. He was a real nice guy who, like for many others, was always happy to help me out, skin- wise. But, more importantly, he was a really great guy. I am really shocked and saddened to hear about this. Your family's in my thoughts.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: MJB on May 01, 2008, 10:18:06 PM
It always saddens me to my core when I hear about news like this.

My deepest condolences. :cry:

-MJB
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Post by: BWPS on May 01, 2008, 11:35:30 PM
I'm so sorry, that's really terrible :(.
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Post by: Rick Battlemage on May 02, 2008, 02:54:04 AM
My condolences to you and his family.

And thanks for letting us know.

Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: USAgent on May 02, 2008, 04:25:04 AM
That was terrible, terrible news.  I had a online frindship with Flash when he was active, he was one of the few people that I actually felt close enough to to actually care about when we would PM each other.  Now I wish I would of PMed him more.   
man.......

My condolences
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: El Condor on May 02, 2008, 04:40:20 AM
My prayers and condolences go out to you and the family, Cyber.  Flash's death is clearly a tragedy for the FR community.

EC
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Post by: Protomorph on May 02, 2008, 04:40:50 AM
Oh...damn. That's terrible news. It is good that you have told us. I'm sure there are more than a few people here that don't have anyone in their real lives that would let us know about something like this. This is, sadly, not the first time something like this has happened to a poster. In that case, we were informed by his brother, and another time by his mother, several months after the fact. How many more will we never know about?

My condolences to your family.
Goodbye Flash...
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Post by: billdamn22 on May 02, 2008, 05:10:25 AM
I am truly at a loss for words right now. My thoughts and deepest condolences to you and his family.
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Post by: Alaric on May 02, 2008, 05:37:04 AM
I'm sorry to hear about this. My condolences to family and friends.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: H0UR_MAN on May 02, 2008, 01:42:36 PM
I normally do not read in this forum, today I am glad that I did. Cyber Burn, I am sorry that did not have the opportunity to meet your cousin. I not long ago lost my uncle in the same manner, and can empathize with your loss. My deepest condolences to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and daughter.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: kkhohoho on May 02, 2008, 01:58:54 PM
I've had experiences with the deaths of several of my own family members in the past,(none of them being parents or siblings), and I have to say that I am truly sorry about your loss.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: chuckles on May 02, 2008, 08:17:08 PM
I'm very sorry hear this. My condolences to your entire family.
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Post by: detourne_me on May 02, 2008, 09:50:57 PM
I'm so sorry,  this is devastating.
take care of yourself and your family man.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: AfghanAnt on May 02, 2008, 10:33:47 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know a few things about mental disorders and how difficult it is for everyone in your life.

My heart goes out to you, and the rest of his family.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: rmt on May 03, 2008, 07:35:33 AM
I am so sorry to hear this news.  What a tragic turn of events.  My condolences to you and to the entire family.  Flash was a very kind and talented person.  My interactions with him were fairly limited but always positive.  He will be missed.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: UnkoMan on May 03, 2008, 08:40:42 AM
I, too, don't usually even check this forum.

I would never have guessed anything wasn't right with Flash. He just always seemed like a friendly, good natured chap, to me. As shown by the support here, he will indeed be missed. We need more people like him. Not just on the internets, but in the world.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Lunarman on May 03, 2008, 10:13:56 AM
Wow. I'm lost for words too. I'm so sorry for you and your family, I used to see him frequently around the boards and he always offered positive comments and produced great work.

My condolences... I'm so sorry
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: bat1987 on May 03, 2008, 12:07:43 PM
The topic tittle is apropriate. When it comes to things like this, one doesn`t know what to say.

My condolences to you and your family.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Spam on May 04, 2008, 05:44:01 PM
My condolences to your family and his...
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Figure Fan on May 04, 2008, 08:15:17 PM
Oh..

I am so sorry, Cyber..

...Flash will be missed. My thoughts go out to all of you.
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Post by: randyripoff on May 04, 2008, 08:46:03 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: crimsonquill on May 04, 2008, 10:17:34 PM
This is sad news indeed... my condolences to your family and his as well.... Flash was quite a friendly fellow and will be missed.

- CrimsonQuill
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Glitch Girl on May 05, 2008, 12:19:23 PM
My condolences and prayers to you and the family. 

I remember Flash around the board and I'm very sorry this happened.  May you find strength and comfort. 
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: Cyber Burn on May 16, 2008, 11:30:04 PM
Thank you. Thank all of you. For keeping our family in your thoughts and prayers, for letting me be able to let his wife know how much other people will miss him, and for letting me finally be able to let my emotions out. I've been so busy trying to take care of everyone else, plus continue with work and school that I haven't let myself sit down and really absorb what actually happened. It wasn't until I finally took some time to myself and sat down and read these posts that I was able to let myself finally break down. I know this community meant alot to him, and now I truely understand why. The thoughtfullness shown here will always be with me. Thank you.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: bredon7777 on May 19, 2008, 08:22:17 AM
I'm sorry for your loss.  And for my lateness in checking the forum.
Title: Re: Don't Know What To Say..
Post by: The Phantom Eyebrow on May 19, 2008, 11:03:26 AM
My condolences Cyber, this is dreadful news.  I remember Flash around the boards, both here and at FreedomFans, and he'll be missed.