I know I've been kinda quiet lately and I'm sorry for dropping off the face of the planet for the last few weeks.
My mother called to let me know that her father was going to die soon. He lives in Oregon, and unforunately due to a number of factors, I was unable to go to be with the rest of the family. My mother was, however, and in return, I agreed to take on a few of her responsibilities while she was out of town since we live in the same city.
My grandfather has had a long and good life and sadly we've been expecting this for a while I guess. There was a false alarm a few months back, but this one was for real. The funeral is set for today. I'm still feeling down about it, especially not being there, and I guess that's made me feel not as talkative as usual and have more of a tendancy to bury myself in work and projects to keep my mind elsewhere.
Anyway, I'm, trying to get back into my normal routines and so on. Basically I just wanted to touch base with everyone and explay why I haven't been posting much.
Aw. :(
*hugs*
Sorry to hear about your grandfather, GG. (http://home.graffiti.net/stumpyanker:graffiti.net/emoticons/console.gif) Even when you know it's coming, it's seldom easy.
I'm sure your mom is grateful you could help her out. It's a huge comfort to know someone is taking care of things so that she can do what she is doing without worrying about other things in her life unraveling.
BTW, with 9000+ posts, you've earned a break when you need it. We'll still be here when you are back to your normal, dizzying pace. :)
GG real life comes first, put this place outta your mind and concentrate on yourself and your family. i wish you all the best and i'm sure you'll pull through this tough time
Sorry to hear about your grandfather- regardless of how expected it was, or how good his life was, I'm sure you and your family miss him. It must have been very difficult not being able to be there.
Good to have you back, though.
My condolences to your family and you.
I hope the holidays aren't too grim for you, the first one after a bereavement can be tough (I know because my Dad passed away three months ago, and I remember what it was like when my Mum died just before Christmas many years back).
I'm sorry, Glitch. :(
All of your feelings make perfect sense, GG, and there is no need to apologise for your absence or explain your shift of attention away from FR and toward work and family matters. Please accept my condolences for your loss. I hope you find time to mourn and heal, and I hope that the healing comes swiftly and gently. Take care.
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I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather.
My condolences Glitchie. My grandfather has had a few scares and false alarms himself over the past year or so and the fact that he's had a good innings doesn't necessarily make things easier.
And you've absolutely no need to apologise for having your priorities straight. We'll still be here no matter how long you take a break for; although having said that it is good to have you back.
Sorry to hear about your grandfather. Condolences. :(
If I may, Stumpy's smiley says it all. (http://home.graffiti.net/stumpyanker:graffiti.net/emoticons/console.gif)
Sorry to hear about your grandfather, GG
Take care GG. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Take your time. We'll be here.
This must be such a sad and difficult time for you and your family. No apologies are necessary - be well, and please accept my deepest sympathies.
EC
Like other people before me said, no need for apology, just hang in there, be strong.
It`s really tough, when you lose someone you love, trust me I know...
My condolences for your loss - we are facing a similar situation with my grandfather so I understand where you're coming from.
Glitchie, you're a pillar of this community. This means you can take a break whenever you want, and we'll be here for you when you get back. And I as well would like to offer my condolences.
Toss me an e-mail if you feel like talking, GG.
-MJB
You have both my condolences and my understanding. My own Grandfather died less than 2 months ago.
I'm sorry for your loss GG.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
My condolences as well.
I'm so sorry to hear about your grand father Glitch Girl. My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
My sincere condolences. As the other said, you certainly don't need to apologize. Take time for yourself.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. And never feel as though you should apologize for putting your family first.
I'm sorry about the news GG. Theres really no need to worry about sitting back for rl.
GG, I'm sorry to read this. You and your family with be in my prayers.
Good thoughts for you, lady...
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Mis condolencias.
By all means take your time and know that we will be here for you whenever you need us.
Thanks guys, all of you. See, it's people like you that make it worth coming back to a place like this. I really do appreciate all the kind thoughts and prayers.
I'll br spending Christmas morning with a friend of mine and picking up my mother at the Airport later that day. I'm going to have some of my recipe chicken Cordon Bleus mostly ready so all I ahve to do is pop them in the oven for her when I get her home so we can have a bit of Christmas feast together. She doesn't know this part yet, so it's going to be a surprise.
Slowly getting back into the swing of things. Got my Secret Santa gift finished and ready to post, and maybe I can start slipping back into my grove again.
Again, thank you all so much for all the kind words.
Quote from: Glitch Girl on December 22, 2007, 01:06:06 PMSlowly getting back into the swing of things. Got my Secret Santa gift finished and ready to post, and maybe I can start slipping back into my grove again.
Wow, GG's a Druid. Whoda thunk?
Glad things are leveling out for you a bit. Family crises can always be a trying time.